Sunday, August 16, 2009

Men are like Cats!

It occurred to me in a conversation with Kris today, and after reflection on the strange ways of men that seem to manifest almost daily, that we have been the victims of some really funny patriarchal propaganda for a long time. The notion that men are like dogs and somehow Women are like cats.......pure (though subtle) propaganda! How many do you see in the 'femdom' world referring to men as dogs, for example. (even dressing them up as dogs!) How many crazy similarities are drawn between Women and cats in pop culture?
Here is my thought..my BIG thought.
Men are like Cats!
Dogs, after all, are typically loyal above all else. They live to love. They are social. They are sensitive to the emotions, feelings and every nuance of those around them. THAT does not sound like men in any way! Men are not dogs at all!
But cats.....
Cats are only around as long as they are being 'fed'. (think about it) If they love, it is not particularly obvious beyond an occasional physical action (rubbing against you and moaning), They like to tear apart things that mean something to you, and they are solitary...NOT social. Men are cats!
Another myth and manipulation of the patriarchy....exposed!

Sunday, August 2, 2009

Couples Photos- Summer Romance Ball

Hello A/all!
I had soooo much fun at the Femdom Network's Summer Romance Ball! Some of the lovely couples let me take photos of them, and they were patient with me, a new SL photographer. I hope they had as much fun having their photo taken as I did taking them.
Cheers, and...
See you at the next Femdom Network event!
Tamar Silverstar of Alfheimr: A Femdom Fairyland


Lady Tru and michaels

Lady Syriana and Maddox

Lady Starlight and jon

MsX and Lucas

Lady Portia and Norbert

Lady Tamar and Loth

Kitty and Velveteen

Lady Eloise and Wolf

Lady Delores and Tian

Lady Athena and Largo
Lady AngelRose and Dinda

Saturday, August 1, 2009

Empty Profile? No Problem!

I want to share with anyone who is interested a fun little game I play called Empty Profile. I use this when a slave, for whatever reason, has an empty profile (in the About section) and has been inworld for more than 2 weeks. The way I see it (agree with me or not), a slave with an empty profile is expressing laziness, extreme boringness, immaturity, or worse yet, unable to express anything at all (does not bode well for emoting later on). When I see this, I always advise the slave to write SOMETHING. if they don't or won't, I offer to give them text to use until such time as they do it themselves. Amazingly, some of them go for it and use what I give them.
Here is what I give them to copy and paste. Feel free to modify this for your own use!! This has been the source of some great amusement for myself and others.

Goddess Gina (Ginette Pinazzo) told me to fill in my profile but I lacked the imagination to do it, so she made me write this. She is always right, of course. She is a Goddess from the center of the Universe. If you think this is funny, IM her and tell her so.