It occurred to me in a conversation with Kris today, and after reflection on the strange ways of men that seem to manifest almost daily, that we have been the victims of some really funny patriarchal propaganda for a long time. The notion that men are like dogs and somehow Women are like cats.......pure (though subtle) propaganda! How many do you see in the 'femdom' world referring to men as dogs, for example. (even dressing them up as dogs!) How many crazy similarities are drawn between Women and cats in pop culture?
Here is my thought..my BIG thought.
Men are like Cats!
Dogs, after all, are typically loyal above all else. They live to love. They are social. They are sensitive to the emotions, feelings and every nuance of those around them. THAT does not sound like men in any way! Men are not dogs at all!
But cats.....
Cats are only around as long as they are being 'fed'. (think about it) If they love, it is not particularly obvious beyond an occasional physical action (rubbing against you and moaning), They like to tear apart things that mean something to you, and they are solitary...NOT social. Men are cats!
Another myth and manipulation of the patriarchy....exposed!
Sunday, August 16, 2009
Sunday, August 2, 2009
Couples Photos- Summer Romance Ball
Hello A/all!
I had soooo much fun at the Femdom Network's Summer Romance Ball! Some of the lovely couples let me take photos of them, and they were patient with me, a new SL photographer. I hope they had as much fun having their photo taken as I did taking them.
Cheers, and...
See you at the next Femdom Network event!
Tamar Silverstar of Alfheimr: A Femdom Fairyland

Lady Tru and michaels

Lady Syriana and Maddox
I had soooo much fun at the Femdom Network's Summer Romance Ball! Some of the lovely couples let me take photos of them, and they were patient with me, a new SL photographer. I hope they had as much fun having their photo taken as I did taking them.
Cheers, and...
See you at the next Femdom Network event!
Tamar Silverstar of Alfheimr: A Femdom Fairyland
Lady Tru and michaels
Lady Syriana and Maddox
Saturday, August 1, 2009
Empty Profile? No Problem!
I want to share with anyone who is interested a fun little game I play called Empty Profile. I use this when a slave, for whatever reason, has an empty profile (in the About section) and has been inworld for more than 2 weeks. The way I see it (agree with me or not), a slave with an empty profile is expressing laziness, extreme boringness, immaturity, or worse yet, unable to express anything at all (does not bode well for emoting later on). When I see this, I always advise the slave to write SOMETHING. if they don't or won't, I offer to give them text to use until such time as they do it themselves. Amazingly, some of them go for it and use what I give them.
Here is what I give them to copy and paste. Feel free to modify this for your own use!! This has been the source of some great amusement for myself and others.
Goddess Gina (Ginette Pinazzo) told me to fill in my profile but I lacked the imagination to do it, so she made me write this. She is always right, of course. She is a Goddess from the center of the Universe. If you think this is funny, IM her and tell her so.
Here is what I give them to copy and paste. Feel free to modify this for your own use!! This has been the source of some great amusement for myself and others.
Goddess Gina (Ginette Pinazzo) told me to fill in my profile but I lacked the imagination to do it, so she made me write this. She is always right, of course. She is a Goddess from the center of the Universe. If you think this is funny, IM her and tell her so.
Wednesday, July 29, 2009
Monday, July 27, 2009
Future Femdom Opens, City, Site, Blog

Just a general announcement (hello friends of FemNet!) about the consolidation (finally!) of the various Future Femdom places into one 'femdom city' called (creatively) Future Femdom, a liberating environment that promotes and celebrates the 'New Wave' of femdom, a society where all men are bred to worship the Matriarchy. We have simple although very different rules here. (best to read them at the Landing Point)
Here is the actual SLURL:
http://slurl.com/secondlife/Popke/60/93/50
The city's companion website (an often necessary guide / catalog and more):
http://sites.google.com/site/futurefemdom/
A Blog:
http://futurefemdom.blogspot.com
and an overhead view of the city taken recently....
Sunday, July 26, 2009
A Few Photos From Our Romance Ball
Lady Shareena
Lady Portia and Norburt
Lady Loulou and Gary
SL Fetishwear Bloggers Lady Deirdre and Lelo
Lady Chantall and Anda
Lady AngelRose and Dinda
Lady Mandalay and BretYesterday's Femdom Network Romance Ball was a big success with the sim filled to overflowing for the whole event. Everyone looked fantastic and it was truly wonderful to see all of our members mingling and enjoying the lovely music provided by Lady Eloise Mureaux.
I heard many compliments about the decor which was designed and assembled by Lady Chantall Congrejo of The Velvet Attic. Thank you again Chantall for a fantastic job.
Many people also enjoyed the photos provided by Lady Tamar Silverstar of Alfheimr. It was a great service to offer to our guests.
I know the other members of The Femdom Network join me in thanking everyone who came out to celebrate with us last night. We all appreciate your support of the Femdom Community in Second Life.
See you at the next Femdom Network event!
I heard many compliments about the decor which was designed and assembled by Lady Chantall Congrejo of The Velvet Attic. Thank you again Chantall for a fantastic job.
Many people also enjoyed the photos provided by Lady Tamar Silverstar of Alfheimr. It was a great service to offer to our guests.
I know the other members of The Femdom Network join me in thanking everyone who came out to celebrate with us last night. We all appreciate your support of the Femdom Community in Second Life.
See you at the next Femdom Network event!
Monday, July 13, 2009
Coming Up! The Femdom Network Summer Romance Ball
The Femdom Network is hosting The Summer Romance Ball at a special event sim on July 25th at 2 pm SLT. Join us for an evening of wonderful music and dancing under the stars. Lady Eloise Mureaux will be DJing. Formal attire please. Watch for more details at our Femdoms and on this blog. See you there...
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